
When it comes to achievement, activities outside of school, especially at home, can be just as influential as what happens inside of the classroom. As a teacher, you can supervise the atmosphere and activity in your classroom, but how can you help guide outside factors?
One important step is to develop a partnership with parents and enlist their support in guiding their children’s academic progress. At Parents’ Nights, open houses, sports events, teacher’s conferences, or whenever you have the opportunity, talk to parents about ways you can work together to focus on their children’s success. Statistics show that students with involved parents are higher-achievers, attend school more regularly, are enrolled in more advanced-placement classes, and are much more likely to complete higher-education.
Start by emphasizing these five areas when developing a partnership with parents:
- Encourage parents to establish a daily routine by providing a quiet time and place for their child to study. Indicate they should be firm about bedtimes so the student is well-rested and alert in the classroom. Also discuss the importance of having dinner together as a family to talk about children’s daily school activities, projects, and expectations. Ask parents to encourage communications through conversation and questioning.
- Suggest that parents monitor children’s extracurricular activities closely. Whenever possible, they should arrange specific after-school activities or supervised care, always oversee television watching, install computer software to block inappropriate websites, and be mindful of video game content. If parents can’t be home right after school, ask them to call or email frequently to check in with the child, or have a trusted neighbor, relative, or friend stop by. Suggest after-school programs, and church or association activities that could serve as alternatives for children going home alone after school.
- Reading books, magazines, and newspapers, and talking about what is learned from them, is another important aspect to pursue at home. Discussing current events and/or the day’s activities is a good habit to develop. Encourage families to tell stories, share problems, and write letters, notes, and messages to one another. Especially today, when most households are perpetually busy, staying in close touch is a vital link that children need to know they can count on.
- Emphasize the importance of parents staying in touch with you, other teachers, and school staff, to keep a handle on their children’s progress and address any problems or issues immediately. Work together with parents to set age-appropriate goals and standards for their children, and to recognize and promote special talents. Encourage parents to compliment their children and share school success stories with family and friends.
- Stress the need for parents to be positive role models. Talk about the significance of demonstrating ways that achievement relates to hard work and dedication. Parents should also discuss the value of a good education and encourage their children to explore ways to turn their true interests into satisfying career possibilities.
I’m interested to know what you think of these thoughts and what ideas you may have already implemented when forming your own successful partnerships with parents. Let me know what’s really worked for you!

